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Can Trauma Therapy Help Me? Common Myths and Misconceptions Debunked
Trauma therapy is often surrounded by myths and misconceptions that can keep people from seeking the help they need. Many

What to Expect When You Start Mental Health Services: A Guide to Your First Session
Starting mental health services can feel like a big step, and for many, it comes with a mix of emotions—relief,

How Can I Make an Impact
When I reflect on the time I spent working with inner city Allentown School District kids, I can’t help but

The Longest Journey Of Our Lives
When I first began practicing psychotherapy in 2001, there was so much I didn’t know. I was naive in believing

Community Is Key To Well-Being
The U.S. Surgeon General recently declared an “Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation.” https://www.hhs.gov/sites/default/files/surgeon-general-social-connection-advisory.pdf In his opening address of the report,

The Long Bond
During my pregnancies, my husband and I chose to wait until birth to find out the sex of each baby.

Parenthood Knocked Me on My Butt
Before you become a licensed mental health therapist, there is a lot of time dedicated to self-reflection. This is meant

What Defines Family?
With Spring approaching, many things are on the horizon: warmer weather, National Sons day, National Women’s Month, National Disability Awareness

Healing Childhood Trauma Through Relationship
What is trauma? Seriously, I’m asking. What is it for you? It is different for everyone who answers that question.

“Why me?” to My Why
“Why me?” to My Why There is a technique used in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) called “reframing.” Reframing is the

How to Prioritize Yourself in the New Year
Let today be the day you give up who you’ve been for who you can become. – Hal Elrod. New

Lose Your Mind, Find Your Body
Lose Your Mind, Find Your Body I regularly put drums into the hands of adults that would not consider themselves

The Power of Authenticity as a Therapist: Showing up with your Whole Self.
The truth is- no one likes to open their emotional self to a robot….Or a brick wall for that matter.

Lessons on Authenticity from The Lindworm
Authenticity is a theme that every person who has existed, or will exist, has struggled with in their lives. It

Seasonal support from four legs: How can animals be supportive when seasonal depression kicks in?
In recent years, the pandemic has placed a precedence on family time, mental health, and rethinking how we care for

How to Understand Emotions in Your Partner Relationship
“Love me when I least deserve it, because that’s when I really need it.” – Swedish Proverb I absolutely love

Sweet Emotion
Just to do a quick recap, We’ve discussed this DBT concept of the Wise Mind as a decision-making process that

Battle of the Thoughts
So many of my sessions begin by catching up on what has happened in the last week or two for


Is your internal monologue holding you back?
We talk to ourselves all day long. This is our internal monologue. We debate with ourselves about eating another eggroll,

A Sense of Poise and Rationality
The Wise Mind So previously we’ve talked about the concept of the Wise Mind, which is a way of making

Space and Grace
What is it? Any client of mine has probably heard me say this phrase. This is something I use in

What’s Your Outlet?
What is yours? We all have one, so what’s yours? An outlet is something that you plug into to help

Wise Men Say Only Fools Rush In
As I have mentioned before, when Dr. Marsha Linehan created DBT as a therapeutic technique, she designed it so the

How I use unconditional positive regard
The concept of unconditional positive regard can be explained in this quote. “As we develop our therapeutic relationship, you will

Hanging by a Moment: Dialectical Behavioral Therapy
As I mentioned before, the foundation of DBT is really this concept of “mindfulness,” which has really made its way

Step by Step: Dialectical Behavioral Therapy
In my previous post, I mentioned a type of therapeutic style called Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (affectionately called DBT for short,

Self-Esteem & Self-Confidence: Implications for What We Do in Our Lives
As humans, we use the world around us as a compass to direct ourselves. There are many different levels at

The Get Centered Studio is Opening! Here’s Why You Should Join…
The Big News! We’re opening a brand-new yoga and meditation studio! The Get Centered Studio is a game-changer. Why? Because

Listening to Your Mind and Body
Something I discuss with clients and loved ones on a frequent basis is the connection between our mind and body.

I Gotta Feeling
When you think about therapy, you may conjure an image of an old man sporting a goatee and glasses, on

How to Prioritize Yourself
My journey to take care of myself started after I had my son in 2019. After he was born, I

Communication and Our Love Languages
I don’t know about you, but I’ve heard the quote “love is an action” a lot in recent years. I

Worry Me Not
If you are human, it would be fair to say that you have worried once or twice in your life.

That Pain in Your Neck Might be Tension Myositis Syndrome and How to Cope with It
What is Tension Myositis Syndrome? Tension Myositis Syndrome (TMS) is a fancy term for something that you already know and

Boundaries and the Butterfly: I Do This Because I Love You
Setting boundaries is one of the hardest things for someone to do. It requires inner strength to watch someone you

The Empty Nest
I remember after giving birth to my children the words of wisdom I heard most were “enjoy it, it will

Internal vs. External Validation
Just about 11 months ago, I decided to participate in my first ever 5K with friends and coworkers. I thought

What is Healthy Competition?
When I grew up, I loved Marvel comic books. I have a lot of childhood memories of going to stores

Beliefs Are NOT Facts
We are currently living in a world of “alternate facts.” Can someone please define this for me? What is an

Honor Your Anger
Have you ever thought about which emotions you feel ‘allowed’ or encouraged to express? Or vice versa, which ones you

Can Positivity Become Toxic?
Have you ever found yourself telling a friend or telling yourself, “Just get over it, there’s no use being sad/angry/disappointed?”

Befriending Impermanence
By Katie Chen “What a time to be alive.” Is something that I’ve heard others say, and something that I’ve

Before We Change the World, We Have 2 Choices to Make
We are in the midst of a Civil Rights Movement, and there is currently a lot of tension in the

Why Am I so Annoyed?
Ever since the beginning of the stay at home order from the governor, I have found myself becoming much more

What Is A Crisis, And How Do You Cope During One?
Given our current situation (isolating due to COVID-19), many of us are spending a lot more time at home. Because

Reflections of Your Past
It is no coincidence that the romantic relationships that we find ourselves in trigger us from time to time. When

Stop Doing That! It’s Not As Easy As It Sounds
I like to define addiction as anything that you don’t seem to have control over. A thought, behavior, feeling, etc.

How NOT to Command Yourself Through Life
What’s your 5-year plan? When are you getting married? When’s your first (next, third, etc) child? What are your goals

Compassion Isn’t Enabling. Healthy Ways to Demonstrate Compassion
There once was a scientist named Charles Darwin. He is best known for writing a book entitled, “The Origin of

How to Know if You or Your Loved One is Struggling with Too Much Stress
Everyone has problems and challenges – that is a normal part of everyday life. But when your problems weigh on

How to Know If You or Your Loved One is Struggling with Anxiety
Anxiety is actually a very important natural response to stress. It is protective and evolved to prevent us from entering

How to Know if You or Your Loved One is Struggling with Trauma
Trauma can sometimes be difficult to identify. If you or a loved one is struggling, this post might help as

Why Asking for Help is a Sign of Strength and Cooperation
We still reside in a society where strength is defined by doing things independently. Our society tells us that asking

Yes, There is an Adolescent Brain: 4 Ways to Help You and Your Adolescent Succeed
There is an adolescent brain, and it is much different than the adult brain. The adult brain has a fully

The Roller Coaster of Life and 7 Ways to Manage the Ride
Life is full of disappointments, right? There are always going to be things that don’t go the way that you

Exercise Improves Mood: Evidence and 7 Ways To Be More Active
“A sound mind is in a sound body.” – Greek Proverb Going beyond more than a witty catch phrase, this
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